From Nursery to CEO: Why I Chose a Business Over a Boss

Let’s be real for a second: the "return-to-work" conversation is one of the most stressful experiences a new mother can have.

In August 2025, my world changed. I met my beautiful son, Atticus. Suddenly, life wasn't about the 9-to-5 anymore; it was about this tiny human who needed me. But, as we all know, the economy doesn't care about your "baby bliss." The system is, quite frankly, a bit fed. It’s designed to force mothers back into the grind before the "new baby smell" has even faded, often because we simply don't have a choice.

The "Perfect" Job That Wasn't

A few months ago, I found it. The "Perfect" role. Casual, three days a week, flexible. I nailed the initial Zoom interview. I was invited to meet the CEO. I had the outfit picked out and the "professional" face ready to go.

But inside? I was torn. My friends and colleagues had spent years telling me, "Erykha, you should start your own business," but that's scary, right? A paycheck is safe. A business is a leap.

The Midnight Realisation

Two days before that big interview, I was in bed talking to my partner, Marcus. His opinion is everything to me. We were discussing the reality of childcare, the idea of handing Atticus over to someone else because a "system" said I had to.

We talked about our dream: a life where both of us work part-time. A life where we don’t miss the moments that flash by in a heartbeat. Culturally, my son needs his father just as much as his mother, and the standard 40-hour work week doesn't exactly make room for that.

Marcus turned to me and said the simple words that changed everything:

"You can do this. You can start your own business and do for yourself what you’re about to go do for that company."

In that moment, his confidence became mine. I didn’t go to that interview. Instead, I emailed my friend Koa at Black Luminous Designs to build my digital infrastructure, and I didn't look back.

What I’ve Learned (The Good and the "Meh")

Starting A.M.E taught me a few things very quickly:

The Helpful

Having a village is crucial. A partner who believes in you. A friend who casually builds websites like it’s no big deal (we all need one of those). Tools like AI that help turn scattered, 2 a.m. thoughts into an actual blog post (hello). Moral of the story: you don’t have to do everything yourself. Lean on your resources and proudly!

The Not-So-Helpful

The "Noise." Everyone has an opinion on how you should run your life. Filter it. If it doesn't align with your family or your passion, let it go.

The Truth

You don't need a 50-page business plan and a million dollars. You need passion, energy, and one solid idea. If you have those, you can do it too.

Why A.M.E is Different

A.M.E stands for Atticus, Marcus, and Erykha, my family unit. It also stands for Admin Made Easy. I don't hire "employees" who just clock in and out. I partner with business owners because I am one. I know the 24/7 care you put into your work because I put that same care into my family and my business.

I’m not just managing your inbox; I’m helping you reclaim your time so you can go home and be present for the people who matter most to you.

If I can do this with a baby in one arm and a laptop in the other, trust me! You can do it too.

Embracing the Journey of Motherhood and Business

Motherhood is a journey filled with ups and downs. It’s a beautiful chaos that teaches us resilience and patience. As I navigate this path, I often think about the lessons I want to pass on to Atticus. I want him to see that pursuing your dreams is possible, even when life throws curveballs.

Finding Balance

Balancing work and family can feel like juggling flaming torches. Some days, I feel like I’m nailing it. Other days? Not so much. But that’s okay. It’s all part of the process. I remind myself that it’s about progress, not perfection.

Building a Support Network

Creating a support network has been a game changer. Whether it’s friends, family, or fellow entrepreneurs, having people who understand your journey makes a world of difference. We share tips, celebrate wins, and lift each other up during tough times.

The Importance of Self-Care

As mothers, we often put ourselves last. But self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Taking time for myself allows me to recharge and show up as the best version of myself for Atticus and my business. Whether it’s a quiet cup of tea or a short walk, those moments matter.

The Future of A.M.E.

Looking ahead, I’m excited about the future of A.M.E I envision a space where mothers can thrive, where businesses can flourish, and where we can all find that sweet spot between work and family life.

I want to create opportunities for others, especially those seeking culturally aligned support. Together, we can build a community that values balance, understanding, and growth.

So, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, remember: you’re not alone. We’re in this together. Let’s reclaim our time, embrace our journeys, and support one another in this beautiful mess called life.

And if you're curious about how to make admin stress-free, check out A.M.E Family.